"Why is it that I have a good chat with him, but our relationship has not progressed for a long time?"
"I just rely on chatting to seduce people, but I always feel that the heat is not enough. What is missing?"
Many girls will focus on their chatting skills when "soothing" with boys, thinking that as long as they have the right topic, they can easily capture a boy’s heart. But the reality is that high-ranking girls never just rely on chatting, but also use other means to show their charm in all aspects.
Today, we are going to talk about those "tricks to seduce men" other than chatting, and teach you how to improve your attractiveness in all aspects from hearing, vision to body language, so that he can’t stop wanting you.
Aural Charm: Voice and Tone are the Hidden Aces
The "Merabin’s Law" in psychology tells us that in communication between people, language content only accounts for 7%, while tone and intonation account for 38%. In other words, it doesn’t matter what you say, it’s how you say it.
Imagine that you say to him in a gentle and low voice: "I missed you today." And you say in a stiff tone: "What did you do today?" Does it give people a completely different feeling?
Clear emotional expression: Your tone is light when you are happy, and slightly raised when you are angry, so that he can capture the emotion in your voice.
Moderate pauses to create tension: Deliberate pauses when speaking, such as "I’m so happy to see you today." This method can increase the contagiousness of emotions.
Learn to act coquettishly: For example, changing "I’m so tired" to "I’m so tired~ Please coax me~" will sound more attractive.
A girl who can really talk can make people feel her emotional temperature from her voice.
Visual Seduction: Body language conveys high-value signals
Body language accounts for 55% of communication and is the most intuitive source of attraction. Many times, a smile or a look in your eyes can express emotions more directly than chatting.
Smile Exercise: Smile is the key to first impression. Find your most natural smile in front of the mirror, with the corners of your mouth slightly raised and your eyes shining, which can quickly close the distance.
Timing of physical approach: When the relationship is a little familiar, you can approach appropriately. For example, tilt your body slightly when speaking to make the other party feel that you are more engaged.
Use your eyes to convey emotions: Look at his face with your eyes, and then gently shift your gaze to create a feeling of distance.
Avoid misunderstandings:
Don’t get too close: When the relationship has not reached the ambiguous stage, too active physical contact may be misunderstood by the other party as frivolity.
Keep it natural: Deliberate actions can easily make the other party notice your intentions, which will make you less attractive.
Looks and movements are more real emotional expressions than words.
Create "memory point" situations
The key to making him remember you is "unique memory". If every meeting is unremarkable, the other person’s impression of you will gradually fade.
Arrange a special date: For example, go together to experience pottery, visit an art exhibition, or try making desserts. These small but interesting activities can quickly warm up your relationship.
Add small surprises into the interaction: For example, prepare a small piece of his favorite chocolate for him on a date, or send a handwritten card. These details can often touch people’s hearts.
Cold online, hot offline
Smart girls know how to "alternate hot and cold" when getting along online and offline to create a sense of emotional fluctuations.
Appropriate indifference online: For example, reduce too frequent active contact to make him curious about you.
Go all out offline: When face to face, use body language, voice and tone to double your charm and make him look forward to your offline interaction.
Let him miss you online and never leave you offline.
Learn to “Guide Emotions”
Boys are not good at expressing emotions in relationships, but they need to be guided to feel. High-ranking girls will use emotional guidance to make boys gradually become dependent on you.
Convey positive energy: When he feels frustrated, infect him with your positive attitude, such as: "I believe you can do it, this is just a small challenge."
Share a little confusion: Occasionally expose your vulnerable side, such as: "I’m a little tired today, but when I see you, I feel that everything is not so bad." Make him feel protective.
Seducing a man can never be accomplished by relying on chatting skills. It requires you to mobilize all your senses and use language, voice and body language to build a full range of attraction.
Starting today, try these methods to make you the "high-ranking goddess" that he can’t resist!