"Does he not love me anymore?"
"Obviously we are still together, but his coldness makes me feel no love."
"What should I do if he really doesn’t love me anymore?"
In a relationship, the most painful thing is to notice that the other person’s attitude is gradually becoming colder, but not knowing how to face it. A boy’s love or dislike is often reflected in some details. If you notice his behavior becoming unusual, be alert.
Today, we will break down the 5 typical signs that a boy “doesn’t love you” to help you quickly judge the current situation of this relationship and teach you how to deal with it gracefully:
His attention dropped
In the past, he always cared about your mood and state, but now even basic greetings seem perfunctory.
Once upon a time, when you showed the slightest bit of unhappiness, he would ask eagerly; when you had a headache and fever, he wanted to take you to the hospital right away. But now, no matter how much you need his care, he is always "too busy to have time."
judgment method:
· Does he still remember your preferences, such as your favorite dishes or your favorite coffee taste?
· Is he still willing to act on your needs?
Typical performance:
When you have a cold, you want him to accompany you to the hospital, but he says, "Just drink more hot water." Such an answer is not only indifferent, but also disappointing.
Patience with you is gone
Patience is the most intuitive manifestation of love. If his attitude towards you changes from being tolerant to being impatient, or even often getting angry over trivial things, then your relationship may have entered a danger zone.
judgment method:
· When you talk about your tiredness from the day, does he listen attentively?
· Does he respond to your enthusiasm when you share interesting stories?
“When a man’s patience disappears, it is often a sign that the relationship begins to cool down.”
Reduce companionship and distance physical contact
A man who loves you will be willing to spend time with you; a man who no longer loves you will always find reasons to avoid getting along with you.
If he consistently turns down your invitations or acts distracted on dates, it’s a sign that he’s looking forward to spending time with you less.
specific performance:
· Resistance to physical contact with you, such as holding hands, hugging or even getting close, he will subconsciously avoid it.
· When dating, he pays more attention to his phone than how you feel.
Emotions shift and become harsh to you
When a man no longer loves you, he will blame you for many of his problems.
Whether it is a small dispute or your legitimate needs, he may respond with a fierce attitude, and may even directly blame the problem on your "willfulness".
How to judge #### ?
· Does he frequently use negative tone, such as "Why are you always like this?"
· Does he often accuse you of your behavior or even hint at breaking up?
Excuse being busy and reducing interaction
"Busy" is an excuse used by many men to get by. If he clearly has free time but is unwilling to take the initiative to chat or meet with you, it may be that he has gradually lost interest in you.
judgment method:
· Are there still regular appointments scheduled?
· Does he take the initiative to find topics to interact with you?
Things to note:
Some men’s "busyness" is indeed the cause of work stress, but if busyness becomes the norm for him to ignore you, then you need to seriously examine this relationship.
How to deal with the signs that he doesn’t love you anymore?
1. Stay calm and don’t rush into confrontation
When discovering a problem, the first reaction of many girls is to question the other person, but this behavior is often counterproductive. What you need to do is calm down and rationally analyze whether his behavior really indicates "no love".
2. Properly distance yourself and re-establish attraction
If someone loses interest in you, don’t pursue them blindly. Try to focus your time and energy on yourself and let him see your independent and confident side.
3. Communicate openly
When you are sure that his behavior is really sending a cold signal, you can choose a suitable time to have a sincere communication with him to understand his true thoughts.
4. If he has made it clear that he does not love you, stop the loss decisively
The most important thing in a relationship is mutual respect. If he makes it clear that he doesn’t love you, don’t continue to force him just because he doesn’t want to. Decisively stopping losses is the greatest protection for yourself.
"Love is mutual cherishment, not one-sided attachment."
A boy’s "dislike" is actually not that hard to detect. It is often hidden in his attitude and behavior towards you. Learning to recognize these signs can not only help you better understand the relationship, but also protect yourself from being dragged into the vortex of disappointment.